Sibling Got More Attention

When your child feels you gave more attention, praise, or time to their sibling.

Guide for Parents

What's Happening

For a child with RSD, seeing a sibling get attention doesn't just trigger jealousy — it feels like proof they're less loved or less important to you.

What They're Feeling

Deep hurt and fear that you love their sibling more. They may feel forgotten, invisible, or less valuable. The comparison triggers intense pain.

Watch For

Accusations ("You love them more!"), aggression toward sibling, dramatic withdrawal, competing for attention, or regression to younger behaviors.