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Lost a Game
When your child loses at a board game, video game, or sport and can't handle it.
Guide for Parents
What's Happening
For a child with RSD, losing isn't just disappointing — it can feel like proof they're not good enough. The loss becomes personal and overwhelming.
What They're Feeling
Shame about not being "good enough," fear of being seen as a loser, intense frustration, and possibly rage at themselves or the game.
Watch For
Accusations of cheating, flipping the board, throwing controllers, refusing to play ever again, tearful meltdowns, or aggressive behavior toward other players.