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Parent Said No

When you said no to something they wanted and they're completely devastated.

Guide for Parents

What's Happening

For a child with RSD, hearing "no" from a parent can feel like rejection — not just of their request, but of them personally.

What They're Feeling

Deep hurt, as if you don't love them or don't care about what they want. The "no" feels personal, not practical.

Watch For

Dramatic statements like "You never let me do anything!" or "You don't love me!", meltdowns, slamming doors, or completely shutting down.